Tech an innovation yet a fail.

Where technology has hugged this generation so tightly, the personal life and relations are getting more sluggish. I personally am opinionated about technology and I find it only of a few usages and rest is all falling apart our baskets. Some of us spend so much time on gadgets and social networking that we forget how it was to talk to someone face to face over a glass of lemonade. We often love our gadgets and websites so much that we start visualising a single me in the room and don’t pay attention to other living bodies in the house. Moreover, birthdays were fun before technology and cost free conveying of wishes became the best messengers of our lives. Somehow where elders of the family don’t know much of today’s tech, they feel offended and primitive for their own kids and other family members because they know they are not preferred over this superb magical technology and social networking and thus they feel ignored. Although social networking would never help us out of life’s problems, we prefer to choose it and not the real existing relations which can never be re-installed once they are deleted unknowingly or by choice. Rest, social networking and other technology is anytime a big achievement of this age; but it also leads us into an imaginary, non-real, insignificant, robotic, addictive, mortal and a delusional world.

The life out of technology is only a myth. To get a life, you and all of us got to quit an excessive use of technology and its tentacles for our survival. Keep it only till the necessity calls and sometimes for entertainment. The real life is completely not in the computers and other machines. The real and trust-worthy relationships are not denoted with a green dot, they are very much found in the black glitter of the eyes of the ones you meet personally on the same land you stand, not somewhere on a 3G network.

Life is in the air flowing in the veranda of your house, not in the air fanned out of the laptop’s vent.

Have a good time and preserve your relationships first which never charm you on social networks yet so cheerful and promising! thanks :)

We have come a long way!

When I look back I come across a list of changes and developments or compromises I have gone through. Most of us don’t get to know this but yes life and time join hands to compete the human and unfortunately the human loses and also wins at the same time.

We are so literally thrashed and smashed on our faces by the life’s penalties that we learn so much new each day and develop ourselves stronger yet we blame life for not being fair. 

Try to notice that we have learned how not to be sad for anything not happening according to us; how not to feel hurt if a statement is against us; how not to expect from even our closest people; how to keep smiling if the situations tumble; how to keep up the hope for a better tomorrow; how to be a mountain solid person in the times of heavy tides and so on.

Each day is a struggle and only we the humans are getting benefited from it. Although we never want to upgrade our human instincts and be natural all the time but the life’s lessons should be adopted ASAP because they only help us live in this uncertain era. If we remain on what we are, then it would be tough for us to shut each and every person who may disturb us. It`s always better to slightly fence ourselves so that we have an efficient tool to fight against any such element and yes, not completely transforming ourselves would keep the real you alive.

We have come out with so many ways to deal with different kinds of people and situations but then it is all temporary and only to survive peacefully. At the end of the day, we all have hearts, we all are sensitive, we all expect from people and life, we all desire and dream and we all are apparently “humans”. This is all what life teaches us- to be insensitive and numb for anything not in our favour or against you AND be what you really are for all those humans and times that please us and mean your life to us.

Good day! thanks.

SAY IT OUT AND LOUD.

Anything may be it, SAY IT OUT LOUD.

When something irritates you in,
when something degrades you in,
just say it out,
be it loud.

When you can’t be friends,
when you can’t mask up the trends,
just say it loud,
in and out.

When you hate someone,
when you want to date someone,
say it and shout,
Loud and out.

When a person is wrecking you,
when he/she is unduly upsetting you,
slap him out,
be it a shout.

When you love a person,
when you doubt your sexual orientation,
when you can’t resist
and want to be sun-kissed,
say it out
and live it loud.

When you feel you should speak,
when you want  your right’s peak,
say it loud,
bring it out,
be it a shout,
but SAY IT OUT.

Good day! thanks.

Everything was fine untill i grew up.

Yep you must have related yourself to the head of this writing. Everything is actually good before a person grows up. The best part is that even if you don’t want to realise that you have grown up, your society would yell at your door step without any invitation and out of free time, that “You have grown up please act like one”. Well what is not so happening if a person has to live the way he or she wants. Like if someone still wants to be happy, then why to act like you have grown up? Besides physically growing up, the “grown up” phrase is used to identify someone with maturity and a kind of stupid care and concern for his or her family that may also mean monetarily taking care of them. It was school and only school where no one had a tensed up mind out of career opportunities or how to make money for living etc. Even the outer world had no such lessons to teach us about life and maturity so that we end up earning a good amount, however the social groups never stopped peeping into our lives without any permission and never got tired giving us tips about how to live endlessly mannered and unnecessarily live like what we were not.

 Although society never stops and family too subjoins the critics without using their brains and without trusting their kid’s capabilities,teens were the best part of our lives. As compared to today’s time, one thing has not changed that is social pressure and many things else have changed like..

§  We can’t ask for an off giving head ache as a reason.

§  We can’t live at a cousin’s place endlessly because now you can’t waste your time as the world is running after money so should we too, with a sack-like face although.

§  We can’t stay at home for some peace because then the social animals would spread non-peaceful moments in our lives.

§  We can’t follow or cherish our loved hobbies because then it would be a waste of energy as you can’t really be getting any money for that.

§  And finally, we can’t avoid a Q &A wherever we go.

Conclusively I personally feel that when we grow up, the only thing worries the family, friends and the society is Money for livelihood. People die these days for earning money and do whatever they feel like but one thing which has been lost and will be lost is HAPPINESS. I wish a world where the economy had no substance called as money and people have no rush for that. Where money comes in, joy and happiness move out and so our lives getting sucked up and we say it “growing up”. Believe me nothing would have worried you.. be it career, society, family pressure, peer pressure etc. if money had not been the only requirement today. This what society says “grow up” means earn some money and forget your happiness whatever it may stand for you.

Be money the last priority in life. Good day, thanks!

Boss to Employee and Vice-versa.

And the most difficult relationship to maintain is here, which is between a boss and his employee and vice-versa. The boss who thinks I am the boss is in a delusion while the employee thinks he is just the employee, is also in the same. Actually the situation is, boss wants the employee to be not just the employee but his only helper in the whole world for all his daily deeds; and the employee wants to be a boss and act like one when the boss is not around and wants to try to do what he thinks fit and not what his boss has asked to do. Next, the boss affects the employee in such a way that he is left with nothing but throwing out all his frustrations via gossip around with co-workers. Also the boss is affected in such a way that he is left with nothing but wanting to upgrade and  spread perfectionism among his employees day and night, may be in his dreams as well. These both know inside that they are not listening to each other day by day and yet they both will act like a lazy bull sitting in the mid of the highway and will not get up until their demands are fulfilled or someone shakes it. It is such a sucked up relationship, I feel, that has nothing but a tug of war and that’s it. The boss wants slavery and the employee wants majesty, and both of these words don’t follow suit in the employment world. But then why to stress it up all the time? I literally want to crack it up into pieces. If a method is not working then the boss should not freak out the employee’s world to get it right. Rather he should be practical and change the way which suits both. Also the employee should not be complacent that a single no will make his life easier rather he should make the best of his efforts and make a conclusion then. Sorry for going a bit preachy. So my point was why a boss and the employee want to let their own points to come into place and are executed at the same time. See, the work of an employee is to do what the boss is saying to do (apart from any personal help, because it was never in the job description.), because he always knows what the organisation needs and also the boss should listen to what the employee wants to put in. I refer here to a mutual participative behaviour.

What the employee finally does if he is always irritated with his boss is that he discusses it with the fellow workers and says few bad words about the boss and may think of killing him in his mind. Because no one wants to stress his or her life and ultimately wants to live free, employees have a default feature of not listening to the boss and doing something of his own. Also the bosses around the world have a default feature of correcting the employees now and then and trying to create a mascot of perfection which he imagines day and night. And so this goes on and on but never any of the party gets the wanted results. The employee wants to get rid of work and the boss wants the employee to get rid of leisure time. Why so nagging man??!! Take a chill pill. (*laugh*)

Good day! thanks.