AIR, WATER,FOOD, SHELTER,CLOTHING AND....SOCIAL INTERNET NETWORKS??!!

THE VIEWS STATED BELOW ARE ONLY OF MY UNDERSTANDINGS WITH THE SUBJECT AND NOT AT ALL GENERALISED FOR ALL OF YOU TO UNWILLINGLY AGREE TO THESE. YOU MAY RELATE YOURSELF TO IT AND MAY NOT.SO PLEASE DON’T BE JUDGMENTAL AND KEEP CALM. THANKS.

So, not using any kind of social internet network may give you immense of all the following:) :

ü You first of all will find that you have much more to do in your non-virtual life.

ü You may stop taking interest in photo posting wars with your non-friends, fellow social members. And if you don’t do that daily, then you may feel a non-equipped user, as the world defines it (not me). So quit it and feel the you in you.

ü You can also realise that you are living for a reason and which is surely not updating statuses. (May be for some, it is.)

ü You may take a breath of freshness and natural air that runs in your veranda and not out of your laptop’s vent.

ü You may find yourself in a peaceful state of mind because you ultimately stop getting jealous or competing for the number of likes and comments on your posts, unnecessarily. (This was for a fresher only.)

ü You will stop trusting anyone and everyone who is sweet with you on internet chats and posts, but is surely not in your real life because they certainly don’t meet you personally but only they meet you on some social network.

ü You will gain *real*,*existing* friends and who may not just leave your life if their internet is not working.

ü You will start living in a real world where there is no war or misunderstandings while chatting when you have not liked or replied to a post of your so called friend.

ü You will find yourself strong because you will be less deceived by your virtual social members.

ü You will finally stop being an attention seeker which you are while posting your posts and photos.(Exceptions exist)

ü You will start loving yourself because your life’s each second’s activity will not be published anywhere except to your family and non-virtual friends.

ü You will surely remember the real, lovely times back few years which had only love between relationships and not any kind of ambiguity, which eventually grew with the help of social networking today.

ü You get to know who all your friends (see the meaning in the dictionary) who may not use a silly social network to gain your friendship or support you in your bad times or think your happiness is only limited to a social network.

ü You will stop wasting your valuable time on someone else’s life events who may not do the vice-verse.

ü Last but never the least, YOU WILL GET AN AMAZING LIFE IN THIS BEAUTIFUL WORLD. TRY QUITTING INTERNET FOR SHOWING OFF.

DRAWBACKS OF NOT USING SOCIAL MEDIA/NETWORKS:

§  You may lack behind for some really important updates as whole of the world is onto such media.

§  You may not be able to connect with your relatives living far away.(you may disagree)

§  You may forget to wish someone his or her birthday,if you really have a bad memory. Or else for people important in your life you don’t need anything to remind you of such events and also there’s no point of wishing birthdays to strangers unnecessarily, so why need a reminder (anyways).

§  You may miss the chance of getting back to a long lost good friend of yours who found you on social media and could not get your contact.

§  You can miss out making contacts for your professional areas because social networks have also started serving as employment portals.

§  You may think you are getting bored one day and could use social networks for few minutes to freshen up.

§  You could use it in case someone’s contact is out of service for a reason or to save your money, whether it serves an urgent need or not. You will have to be highly rigid for that.

§  You could miss out using it as a matrimonial portal (if you are not married),so update your profile with a high grade profile picture.

§  You could broadcast any of your important life event or information to a certain group of people whom you think are important to you and should know it; and vice-verse.

§  You may end up being yourself and real, without any mask. This may make you sad as you will never be matching up the standards of all the people on your list. :( All my sympathies are with you.

THIS IS "ALL" I HAD TO SAY. THANK YOU :)

HAVE A GOOD DAY.

15 POINTS TO TELL YOU THAT YOU HAVE AN INDIAN MOTHER.

1. She cares for you more than your God.
2. She is ahead of your alarm clock to wake you up once you ask her help.
3. Once you tell her about an amendment in your tastes, she can’t disappoint you even a single time in her life time.
4. Even if you say a thousand No(s), she will try until you eat that healthy stuff.
5. She is a superwoman, has got 10 hands and has a memory of 1 Geop Byte.
6. She is the only one who helps to ease you when you are hungry and just reached home, and she also just did.
7. She is the only one whom we have never thanked for what she does and yet she never lacks.
8. She already knows what is going on your mind and soul and can even give you a print out of the exact words you are grumbling inside.
9. She is someone whom you can tell everything and just every thing.
10. She is born with an inbuilt application of blocking calls of people she thinks unfit for you to talk to.
11. She can also guess and guess so rightly about what you are going to do first when you come home and she places there a chit of directions, in her absence, to the food she kept prepared for you.
12. She has a never ending stock of love for you even if you can’t give it back or see through.
13. She can build you up more than any finishing school.
14. She can cry for you more than a daily soap mom.
15. She can’t forget your presence even if you can. 

So this may have brought you to realise how hard it is to be a mother and how easy it is to be her child but i think we should value it and return a bit if it's possible.
Thanks,have a good time! :)

New song by me :)

Tech an innovation yet a fail.

Where technology has hugged this generation so tightly, the personal life and relations are getting more sluggish. I personally am opinionated about technology and I find it only of a few usages and rest is all falling apart our baskets. Some of us spend so much time on gadgets and social networking that we forget how it was to talk to someone face to face over a glass of lemonade. We often love our gadgets and websites so much that we start visualising a single me in the room and don’t pay attention to other living bodies in the house. Moreover, birthdays were fun before technology and cost free conveying of wishes became the best messengers of our lives. Somehow where elders of the family don’t know much of today’s tech, they feel offended and primitive for their own kids and other family members because they know they are not preferred over this superb magical technology and social networking and thus they feel ignored. Although social networking would never help us out of life’s problems, we prefer to choose it and not the real existing relations which can never be re-installed once they are deleted unknowingly or by choice. Rest, social networking and other technology is anytime a big achievement of this age; but it also leads us into an imaginary, non-real, insignificant, robotic, addictive, mortal and a delusional world.

The life out of technology is only a myth. To get a life, you and all of us got to quit an excessive use of technology and its tentacles for our survival. Keep it only till the necessity calls and sometimes for entertainment. The real life is completely not in the computers and other machines. The real and trust-worthy relationships are not denoted with a green dot, they are very much found in the black glitter of the eyes of the ones you meet personally on the same land you stand, not somewhere on a 3G network.

Life is in the air flowing in the veranda of your house, not in the air fanned out of the laptop’s vent.

Have a good time and preserve your relationships first which never charm you on social networks yet so cheerful and promising! thanks :)

We have come a long way!

When I look back I come across a list of changes and developments or compromises I have gone through. Most of us don’t get to know this but yes life and time join hands to compete the human and unfortunately the human loses and also wins at the same time.

We are so literally thrashed and smashed on our faces by the life’s penalties that we learn so much new each day and develop ourselves stronger yet we blame life for not being fair. 

Try to notice that we have learned how not to be sad for anything not happening according to us; how not to feel hurt if a statement is against us; how not to expect from even our closest people; how to keep smiling if the situations tumble; how to keep up the hope for a better tomorrow; how to be a mountain solid person in the times of heavy tides and so on.

Each day is a struggle and only we the humans are getting benefited from it. Although we never want to upgrade our human instincts and be natural all the time but the life’s lessons should be adopted ASAP because they only help us live in this uncertain era. If we remain on what we are, then it would be tough for us to shut each and every person who may disturb us. It`s always better to slightly fence ourselves so that we have an efficient tool to fight against any such element and yes, not completely transforming ourselves would keep the real you alive.

We have come out with so many ways to deal with different kinds of people and situations but then it is all temporary and only to survive peacefully. At the end of the day, we all have hearts, we all are sensitive, we all expect from people and life, we all desire and dream and we all are apparently “humans”. This is all what life teaches us- to be insensitive and numb for anything not in our favour or against you AND be what you really are for all those humans and times that please us and mean your life to us.

Good day! thanks.